Finaly I got once closer to my goal to get a desktop looking similar to ubuntus. I used the great program "true launch bar" with some modifikations, a Ubuntu Human VS, the super turbo tango patcher and a modivied version of chiwou's tango styler toolbar. my browser is Opera 9 also with a human style.
VS: Ubuntu Human
Styler: Tango Orange mod by me, soon to be released
Opera: drapper retouched
Icons: Super Turbo Tango Patcher
WP: Follow the Pepper-brick Road (part of the Wasabi VS)
so stay human